Breakups.

Breakups happen. Unfortunately.

Since two people I very dearly care about (that are not current readers of my blog- as far as I know of) broke up very recently, I wanted to write this post.

Now, I'll be honest. I haven't gone through too many breakups. At all. There's some people I know who have dated twenty guys or girls and they've just flown through this stuff like it's nobody's business. Because it isn't anyone's business.

In my experience, there's a lot of feelings behind breakups. There's not much black and white in breakups. There's lots of grays and yellows and blues and greens behind this stuff, and it always gets mixed up with water and memories and all of the other stuff.

So be patient with people going through breakups. It can be one week before they move on, or years before that even happens. Just be patient, please. Don't judge. Just listen if they want to talk.

Here's the positive thing about breakups though! Sometimes it leads to a new road and leads to you doing amazing things. I mean, I started my first blog right after me and my ex broke up and now tomorrow I'm celebrating two years of my lovely blog.

There's always light at the end of the tunnel. And you can get through this. Just do you.